Relationship Advice for Couples with Pets
Many new couples need love and relationship advice once they commit to each other, and they need to deal with their partner’s pets. There are some people in the world that are not animal lovers or are afraid of animals. Many people simply can’t understand how others don’t like pets until they are faced with love and relationship issues because of them.
Handling the Hair
Many people simply don’t like pets because of their hair. Most dogs and cats shed, and this is an unpleasant fact. There are some easy ways to eliminate love and relationship troubles that are caused by one partner complaining about the pet hair.
Brushing your pet daily will cut down on the amount of hair that accumulates inside of your home. This should not take very long and if it stops the arguments, it will be worth the extra time. Be sure that you vacuum the carpets and the floors too. It’s unlikely that your home will be pet hair free, but the cleaner you keep it, the less love and relationship problems you will have.
Can You Smell That Smell
People who do not bathe or shower daily tend to smell. The same thing occurs with pets who are not bathed. Many partners complain about the pet odor within the home, and this can lead to arguments and other problems in love relationships.
Bathing your pet weekly usually eliminates the typical odors associated with dogs. Cats shouldn’t be bathed more than once a month. If regular bathing doesn’t get rid of the odor, you should consult your veterinarian. There could be an underlying problem causing the smell. Your love and relationship troubles might very well go away along with the smelly pet odors.
Boycott the Box
One of the major pet problems that affect relationships is cat box odor. More men than women complain about the smell from litter boxes, especially if there’s more than one cat in the household. Felines have a unique odor due to their urine and if the litter box isn’t kept clean, that odor could permeate throughout the house.
A cat’s box should be scooped out at least twice daily. The actual litter should be dumped out at least once each week unless there is more than one cat. Washing out the box before replacing the litter will help to cut down on the smell.
Train the Untrainable
There are many people who like pets as long as they are trained. Your home should be a place where you and your partner can feel safe and comfortable. A new love and relationship could be put in jeopardy if your pets are not trained properly. Simple training could make your home and love life so much better.
You’ll need to listen and understand where your partner is coming from with the issue. Pets that urinate and defecate all over the house are never pleasant to be around, and neither is that home. Barking dogs, dogs that jump up on people and aggressive dogs can easily be trained. It’s the owner who needs training on how to handle a dog’s normal behavior. Dogs are eager to please, and knowing how to handle a pet properly in a calm manner without hitting or yelling is necessary. The best option is to search for a dog trainer who can train you and your dog.
One of the biggest issues new partners have with the other partner’s pets is that their dogs are too possessive of the owner. Dogs can get between the two people and create a rift. It is essential that you correct this issue fast, or the love and relationship could be in danger.
Everyone loves their pets, but when they begin to push your partner away a solution is needed. You can take the dog to professional trainers can help resolve the issue that is making your love and relationship strained.
When you have tried everything else, you might need to both go to family therapy. No, the dog won’t be included in your family therapy sessions, but a counselor can help you to understand how your partner feels. This will help you to enhance your love and relationship as well as make your partner understand that you want to make things better, without getting rid of your pooch.
Jim Anderson - About Author:
Jim Anderson is a freelance writer who writes extensively about people tackling problems in their love and relationship and considering family therapy. He provides relationship advice and relationship help to save your marriage and improve your love relationships.
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