Focus on Being the Right One
Relationships are oftentimes complicated, and we get so caught up in trying to be perfect for the other person we forget to be the right one. There is a huge difference between being the right one and the perfect one. We cannot mold our lives and our preferences around another person. This will almost always end in failure. How annoying would it be to live your life with someone who is perfect or they think they are perfect? Instead of focusing on what makes you the perfect one, just relax and focus on being the right one. If you are right for yourself then you will also be the right one for that special person.
The first thing you need to do is concentrate on what makes you happy and fulfilled. If you are unhappy and you live your life with unfulfilled desires then it will come across in your personality and attitude. Nobody wants to be with someone that cannot find happiness and fulfillment in their own life. Finding out what makes you happy can be a journey that leads you on the right path to being the right one. You just have to be honest with yourself and focus on what is important.
Fulfillment often comes from having a job or career that you love. If you are doing what you love it does not matter if you are not making a ton of money. Enjoy your vocation and this will come across in your everyday life. A positive attitude towards your chosen occupation will make you a step closer to being the right one. If you are unhappy with your job then you should take steps to find the right job. This is good advice because a job can be like relationships and if it is not right then you should move on.
Happiness comes from not only being satisfied at work but having extracurricular activities that you enjoy. It can be as simple as reading books or as complicated as kayaking with whales. You need to find the things that make you happy and then you can be closer to being the right one.
Independence is sexy and it can be the driving force in relationships. If you are independent then you do not need anyone. The fact that you do not have to be with someone but you want to be with them is sexy and makes you the right one. It is important to know the difference between want and need because it is essential to healthy relationships.
Happiness, fulfillment and independence are essential to being the right one. You do not have to be perfect. You just have to be right with yourself and that will make you right for someone else. At the end of the day the real question is, are they right for you? If so, then you have found the right relationships for you. Just make sure that all the components that are important to you are important to your chosen partner.
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