The Four Don’ts of Dating for Men and Women
Your first dating can be an exhilarating affair, whether you are man or a woman for that matter. You will feel a lot excited and your expectations may be sky high. But as time passes by and you have had several dates, you will still find dating a thrilling affair, but having gained enough experience, you are certain not to have the nervousness in you. Dating for some is a onetime affair for a great many and it can end up as a permanent relationship, or in marriage, possibly. If you are a veteran dater yourself, there is very little that you may want to learn from others; however for the novice a few words of advice will go a long way in joining the veterans’ club.
Finding the right date is the most important part of the dating process, and taking help from your friends is a great idea. Sometimes a dating idea can from the most unexpected quarters. I used to get them from the many romantic channels that I get to see on my Verizon FiOS TV. I try not to enact the strategy that the hired actors play out on the TV; rather I try the modified versions that suit me best. As you will have guessed, finding the right date to make it a pleasant affair, needs planning in advance. Dating can be an expensive affair, and how much you will want to spend will depend on whom you are dating. And if you are man, remember you will be picking up the bill most often then your date. But then there is an immense pleasure hidden in it.
No one can write the rules for dating; you are your own judge, still there are some dos and don’ts that you can consider to make dating a big success and a pleasure too. When it comes to dating, remember the rules are different for the sexes; what may seem perfect for women cannot be said to be true for men. That is because perception are vastly different between the sexes, and what had appeared perfect in the beginning can go sour in minutes. If you ever tried analyzing the reason, you would have found that our words can have immense impact on our relationship. It is always prudent to break a date if you don’t feel comfortable in your partner’s company, and saying that politely will show your maturity.
Here are some don’ts for dating:
a. Honesty is the hallmark on which relationships flourish, and what you say to your date will decide which way the relationship will go finally. Being truthful and sincere can reinforce your relationship far beyond your expectations. So, never lie about your past or try projecting yourself as what you are not.
b. It is in the human nature to be conscious about each other’s skin color, ethnicity and social background, and is often the reasons to disagree on many issues. So, it is always safe to downplay these subjects, if at all you should get trapped into an argument. But be sincere and let your date know about it rather than pretend to agree to the other’s views.
c. One of the reasons why dating go sour even during the first meet is sex. Dating is far beyond that, it is about understanding each other better and laying the foundation for a solid relationship for the future. If you are the man especially, then suggesting sex at this point of time is the last thing you may want to do. It is best if you can avoid it.
d. Men should try not to brag about their career however tempting it may be. It is actually a turnoff for many women. Women on their part should be a little subtle if they are in the habit of boasting about their family, men really don’t like it, remember.
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Nathan Brown likes to write about dating, relationship and Verizon FiOS TV
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