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A Few Essentials That Parents Should Keep in Mind While Molding Children

By Stuart Owens Subscribe to RSS | April 24th 2012 | Views:
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The other day I was walking along the road near my locality, I saw two young women walking along with the child beside the road. It was a private road and not many vehicles pass by that way. However, the drivers are usually rash as there is less traffic. To my astonishment, I found that the both these women were walking together, while the child was almost walking on the road. It was at that point of time I wondered if people had the basic civic sense, not to let the child walk on the road side. This was not the first time; however, I have seen several of these cases earlier.

I have always liked kids and tried to gather more information on parenting concepts. Another day I went to my friends house, she was busy installing her computer privacy software. When I enquired about how she was able to do it all by herself, she said she took the tech help instructions. Now that she remembers what needs to be done, she was able to complete the task with ease. This friend of mine is a child specialist, so I had a short conversation with her about few basic parenting concepts. This conversation was quite useful hence I thought I could share some of the concepts in my article.

Apart from being a child specialist my friend takes weekend courses for the parents in her region. She is quite good at these concepts, and her classes are quite interesting. She has been doing this over the years and I have seen parents travelling long distances just to attend her courses. During her sessions she covers a lot of points that have helped many parents to transform themselves and they have set an example for others as well, after attending these courses. I have seen parents who have come visited this place with problems in her mind. There are been people who have thought themselves to by inefficient to mange children. All these kinds of people have, are currently leading a happy life along with their children.

I have also attended some of her sessions and I liked some of the concepts that I came across. I thought some of these concepts are fundamentals that every parent needs to adopt in them. The first concept I thought as essentials was being self disciplined. It is very important for every parent to have a healthy sense of control, confidence, independence, self-worth and a positive work ethic. This is because children pick up a lot of qualities from their parents all by themselves. I have found that in most cases that it is the trend that the parent sets for them the children also follow. When parents fail to provide these, children may experience as adults the feelings of being out of control of their lives, a sense of entitlement, lack of confidence, poor self-esteem, irresponsible decision-making, and job difficulties.

Likewise there are a lot of concepts that parents need to set at their homes. A child learns empathy from parents who allow children to fail and learn from their failures with loving support. Parents who acknowledge their children’s feelings as healthy and normal teach kid’s first-hand that it feels good to know someone understands their human experience. Parents should also provide a feeling of independence and self control and also promote good social skills. Child should also learn how to approach people say for example, Kids who learn to be resourceful will be much better prepared to navigate the adult world, will feel comfortable asking questions, discovering options, and networking with people to be successful providers for themselves and their families. We can give many such examples for parents to follow and would help children grow in a systematic manner.

Stuart Owens - About Author:
Stuart is a freelance writer who has written articles on various topics. He spends time browsing through the internet and likes the idea about securing her information by using computer privacy software. He wants to share a few essential aspects relating to parenting concepts.

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